Mar 20, 2025

'Inner Voice Vs. Ego Voice' by David Sudar 

I was recently talking to a friend who was laboring over whether or not to move in with her boyfriend.  She had previously lived with a partner and it didn’t go well.  She had much apprehension at the thought of doing it again—especially after less than a year of dating. After listening to all her nervousness, I said, “then don’t do it”. “But he’s so wonderful”, she said, “we have such an amazing connection… and, logistically, it just makes a lot of sense”. “Well, then do it,” I said. “But I told myself I wouldn’t do this again unless I was 100% sure he was the one—and I guess I’m not totally sure yet”.

Sound familiar?  Maybe for you it’s not a relationship decision, maybe it’s related to your career, a big journey, what kind of communication to maintain with old friends or perhaps something as simple as where to eat for dinner. At some point or another, we all ... [Read more]

Seed questions for reflection: How do you relate to the difference between the inner voice and the ego voice? Can you share a personal story of a time you dared to enact what your inner voice was saying? What helps you walk the path of sincerity?